WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU FELT PURE BLISS … ECSTATIC JOY … TRULY FREE … AND TOTALLY FUCKING ALIVE?

I’m not talking about a dopamine rush that fades quickly and leaves you longing for more. 

You know the kind … you get it from a concert, flirtation, partying, and praise. (but it always comes from outside of you, and it never lasts)

What I’m talking about is … feeling vibrant, full of vitality, dripping with joy, overflowing with love, free to do and say exactly what you want … and being LIT UP from the fucking inside! 

BEING THE WOLF is about living intensely and fully. Not necessarily in what you do, but in who you are. 

I’m talking about moving through life as your WHOLE SELF … out in the open and free.

You’re not afraid to howl at the moon with everything you’ve got, but you can still be intensely soft and loving. 

You are free to be ALL OF YOU … at full volume. 

EVERY part of you. 

INCLUDING the parts that’ve been forgotten, forbidden, and are everything they told you was too much, too wild, too wrong.

This is the key that unlocks the magic and power needed to ignite and create a life that FEELS completely fucking alive. 

But historically … being “THAT YOU” came with consequences … pain, rejection, disappointment, abandonment, and what you want getting taken away.  

So you learned to hide, dim, and pretend those parts of you don’t exist. 

And you bent your BEING into a form that doesn’t match the shape of your soul. 

You didn’t do it on purpose … this happens subconsciously (for survival).

But living in that shape has slowly been sucking the life out of you. 

At first, it didn’t seem such a big deal to cut out the part of you that’s bold, brash, and aggressive. 

People liked you more; they called you kind, calm, and grounded.

And now you find that nobody listens to you. You never get what you want. And your business and finances are stuck at plateaus you can’t break. 

And when your friend (who’s making a ton of money) gets an award for their passion project … you nod and say congratulations. 

But inside the envy rises, and you think, “I’m more talented than they are! Why do they get everything good?”  

And you try to pretend that that low hum of shame isn’t there. 

The shame that comes from knowing deep down you’re capable of creating a life FEELS amazing.

But no matter what you do … nothing changes.  

Or you get what you worked for, but it doesn’t feel how you wanted … it’s just “flat.”

You didn’t realize that the bold, brash, and aggressive part you disowned … is also the part that takes RIGHT-FOR-YOU risks, innovates, and makes vision a reality.

Or maybe you shut down the curious, playful aspect of you because people didn’t like your jokes, your joy, or your questions. 

And now, when you see someone singing and dancing in the aisle of the grocery store, you either long to be that free or silently judge them. 

Not because you’re a bad person, but because your nervous system is bracing for the consequences you experienced when you acted so free.

You learned that it was better and safer to shut up and do as you were told. And over time, the comments, punishment, and judgment …  squashed the fun and spark right out of you. 

But that squashed, curious-playful part is the part that can pick RIGHT-FOR-YOU opportunities … the ones that result in unbridled joy, passionate love, peaceful bliss, and freedom that’s specifically FOR YOU!  

And without that part, you keep ending up with things that “look good on paper,” but don’t light you up. 

Or maybe you hid the super achiever, driven part of you. Because you got in trouble for outshining your sibling. Bullied for being smart. Or even worse … your parents didn’t like it. 

So you learned … don’t give it your all, don’t shine bright, do just enough to get by, and don’t rock the boat. If you do all that, you’ll be safe, and nothing will be taken from you.

So now you’re great at helping other people achieve their dreams and get what they want. But when it comes to your dreams and your life … you always fall short of the finish line … or worse yet … you don’t even try.

And all this has translated into a half-life … that might feel “fine” … but not great. 

Flat … but not energized. 

Safe … but not fulfilling.

When the life you really want … the life your SOUL longs for … is big, bold, and inspiring. It looks amazing on paper … AND it feels even better. 

But your subconscious mind won’t let you create what your soul wants. 

It keeps you stuck in a mediocre to shit life … because it doesn’t want you to experience the loss and pain you or your ancestors endured in the past. 

So it forces you to shrink, bury, and hide the parts of you that others didn’t like. 

And the truth is, most people don’t even know this is happening. 

All they know is that life feels dim. 

They do all the “right” things, but it never feels like enough. 

When they hit a goal, they get the dopamine hit. But it wears off, leaving them feeling empty. 

They spend their lives trying to make other people happy, and never get the love they want in return.

They yo-yo between the chase and disappointment. 

And if it goes on long enough, they say, “What’s the fucking point?” and give up.  

This is not living, this is not being alive! 

This is existing as a watered down hologram of who you came into this world to be. 

Before you get down on yourself … 

You need to know that there’s NOTHING wrong with you.

You were programmed for adaptability and survival. And you’ve excelled at it.

But now … you’re ready for a life beyond safe. A life beyond “fine.” 

And to get that life, you must override the very programming that made it possible for you and your ancestors to survive.

You must override the programming that says it is BAD, DANGEROUS, and FORBIDDEN to be ALL OF YOU. 

And your subconscious mind will fight and sabotage you every step of the way. Because it fears for your life. 

This programming runs DEEP as Fuck! 

Lots of it has been passed down through the generations. (It’s not even yours!!!). And some of it stems from trauma and pre-verbal experiences. 

For most people … It’s as deep as the programming that tells your heart to beat and your lungs to breathe. 

And you can’t problem-solve, analyze, or discipline your heart into NOT beating. 

You can’t hypnotize, talk therapy, or rewire your lungs into NOT breathing. 

This is why, after 10 years of therapy, you still struggle with the same issues. 

It’s why, when you leave bad situations, it’s great at first. But eventually, the new business, job, relationship, or health protocol ends up just like the last one. 

It’s why even though you’ve created a million “better” versions of you, you still don’t have a life that feels electric and alive to you.

Because it takes more than discipline, problem-solving, analyzing, and working hard to be free of programming that deep.  

And for most people, the only way it happens is through major crisis … like divorce, losing your business, job, or loved one, or bankruptcy. 

THIS IS WHY I LEAD EXPERIENTIAL, TRANSFORMATIONAL EVENTS … 

Because these events facilitate change without having to experience crisis.